Tuesday, 11 December 2012

The anti gift guide

This morning I read this article in the Guardian. Just how much of what you buy survives after christmas? Does it continue to be used? Hell can you even remember what great aunt Maude got you last year? Why do we put ourselves through this?!

Gift that are needed or are genuinely enrich the giftees life are wonderful. Flannel pjs for that friend who has moved to the cold north, a stand mixer for your sweetie or a beautiful hard back copy of a much loved often lent out and lost book for the giftee to cherish for ever and clutch while gleefully while they cry "Get thee to the library, this is mine and I love it!" I recommend a nice copy of Good Omens for this last one.

What I'm trying to say, in the nicest possibly way, if you aren't a child chances are I'll be giving you some kind of food based product. That I made myself. Because nothing says "I really care about you" like gout.  Gout and high blood sugar. And if you are a child chances are its educational, made of wood and most definitely does not make a noise. I am a meany.

Filling each others homes with random, expensive tat really is wasteful. "Look I really do care about you! I spent 20 quid on this thing I hope you'll like" doesn't quite have a wonderful ring to it. Now I'm not saying we should give at all. Gifts are wonderful, they make us all happy. Its a lovely feeling taking the time to search for that perfect thing. To wrap it up, stash it away and then to pass it into excited hands. The perfect piece of jewellery, or a nice set of tools. A stylish hat or a life changing piece of music. All wonderful things. I'm just asking that we put a stop to stuff for the sake of stuff. 

A bubble wrap tie for example. How long is that going to last? Also its costs a fiver! A waste of money and resources. That's an awful lot to simply say "hahaha you work in an office and I presume its dull." Er right. Time to rethink?

Anyway I have more baking to do. I promise I'm not the Grinch.
minnie xoxo

6 comments:

  1. I couldn't agree more. I prefer giving my knitted gifts to something I've bought. It's not that I haven't earned the bought item (I really don't make a habit of picking up stuff that's fallen off a truck), it's just I've had a more direct involvement in the manufacture of the item. This means more to me as the giver of the gift - it's much more difficult to part with something you've spent that long creating.

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  2. It doesn't sound grinchy to me at all, and no noisy toys? that is not mean, that is every parents DREAM gift!

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    1. This year one of my best friends and her family are getting a family game night box. I think it may have to become a tradition if it goes down well.

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  3. I think pretty much the same way, except I can be a touch more Grinch-like. If your not a child, you don't get gifts at all. If I can't afford it I'm not going into debt or putting it on a credit card. The holidays are about spending time with people I care about, not the material things that I get.

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    1. Yes THIS, going into debt to give some gifts is CRAZY.

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  4. I agree that society has a tendency to get caught up in excess during the holiday season. It's really unfortunate. My family decided to stop buying each other gifts several years ago and it ended up being a huge relief to all of us. Now the holidays are about spending time with each other, not spending money on each other.

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